why do victims of abuse become abusers

Do Sexually Abused Kids Become Abusers? Feb. 6, 2003 -- It is widely believed that boys who are victims of sexual abuse become abusers themselves. Studies of pedophiles suggest this often is the case, but new research shows that the risk may be smaller than previously thought. Roughly one in 10 male victims of child abuse in a U. K. study later went on to abuse children as adults. But the risk was far greater for sexually victimized children who came from severely dysfunctional families. Family history of violence, sexual abuse by a female, maternal neglect, and lack of supervision were all associated with a threefold-increased risk that the abused would become an abuser.

The study is reported in the Feb. 8 issue of
The Lancet. "The message here is that sexual victimization alone is not sufficient to suggest a boy is likely to grow up to become a offender," study author and Arnon Bentovim tells WebMD. "But our study does show that abused boys who grow up in families where they are exposed to a great deal of violence or neglect are at particular risk. " Bentovim and colleagues from London's Institute of Child Health identified 224 adult male victims of child sexual abuse whose childhood medical and social service records were available for review.

They then searched arrest and prosecution records to determine their later criminal activity. Most of the subjects were 20 years old or older when the study was conducted. Twenty-six of the 224 sex abuse victims (12%) later committed sexual offenses, and in almost all cases their victims were also children. who came from families where violence was common were more than three times as likely to become abusers as were those who experienced maternal neglect and sexual abuse by females.

One-third of the adult abusers had been cruel to animals as children, compared with just 5% of the child abuse victims who did not grow up to commit sexual crimes. But abusers and nonabusers experienced similar levels of physical abuse as children, and there were few significant differences in the severity or characteristics of the sexual abuse they suffered.

I believe Martin Seligman in What You Can Change and What You Can't says that it's just genetic. I. e. the victims inherit it rather than learn it from their (parental) abusers. That's just idiotic. I personally don't believe it has anything to do with 'trauma'. People decide what is and is not 'normal' at a fundamental level when they are children.

If they get abused as children, that's what they think of as normal and right, or at least 'not a big deal'. The other problem, as I see it, is that are going to associate what happened to them with their sexuality, resulting in some pretty messed up sexual issues. So even if they get passed the 'molestation == normal' issue, they may still get turned on by the thought of it, unfortunately. I imagine it would be pretty difficult to deal with. posted by at on February 18, 2006